How to get your Toddlers to Cooperate in Photoshoots

Let's face it. Kids don't always love to be photographed. Dress clothes can be uncomfortable, photographers are strangers, and often times, they'd rather be doing just about anything else. Sometimes being a family photographer can be an uphill battle. When I started Teenie Toddler Films, I knew video could be an exception to this rule. Instead of forcing photos, we would capture kids just being kids, encouraging the play and goofiness, embracing the stains on the knees of pants, and capturing the wild. I'm a big believer that some of the best photographs are the most candid, when little ones are playing with their toys in a window and definitely have no interest in being photographed.

It's a winning formula for video and candid photos, but what happens when all we want are posed family portraits? Luckily, I have a few tips and tricks to help prep parents for photoshoots when their toddlers don't want to sit still. Here is my secret recipe for success of a photoshoot, in four quick tips!

1. Timing is key.

Knowing when your little one is the happiness can really be the biggest key to success of a photoshoot. Is your little one the happiest right when they wake up in the morning, or wake up from a nap? Or are they happiest right after they eat? I would never suggest planning a photoshoot during their nap time. Missing naps can often lead to overly tired little ones who are less likely to cooperate. Knowing when your little one is the happiest and planning accordingly can make a huge difference!

2. Change at home!

I know the thought process, changing in the car or when you arrive at the shoot can prevent wrinkles. But I promise you, as a long time fashion photographer, I can tell you first hand, wrinkles are easier to fix than uncooperative models. Changing at home can help prevent agitation by letting your little ones get dressed in the comfort of their own home.

3. Bring small bribes

Snacks are a great motivator! Keep the snacks in a small bag, when kids see a big bag of treats they often will fixate and focus on wanting more. Small non-messy treats in little bags can be a perfect way to keep little ones on track during a shoot!

And finally,

4. Take breaks

It's totally okay to know when to step away. When our little ones get frustrated, sometimes stepping away and taking a small walk, or going on an adventure, is all it takes to reset their energy. Frustration can build up, and knowing when to take a break and come back can make all the difference on photoshoot day.